Knowing Yourself

To achieve success in relationships and happiness in life, you must first start with looking at yourself.

If you don’t love who you are at your core then you cannot possibly love another right into theirs. Knowing yourself involves self-inquiry, looking at your tendencies, understanding how you have come to be the way you are. It involves looking at your family history, your automatic behaviours and reactions and how easy it is for you to find and embody love. It involves mindfulness and having the courage to look into your heart to see what it seeks and how it works. It involves exploring your different faces, all corners of your personality and your truth.

Once you know more about you, you’ll make less compromises because when you know who you are and what you truly seek, you won’t choose relationships and situations which steer you away from your truth and deep desires out of life. You will have a much easier time understanding others, minimise your suffering and cast clearer lines of communication. You will have a far better chance at finding your match and improving all of the relationships that really mean something to you.